Pain kindly wakes up stupidity
Lest it slumber through eternity.
HAT CAUSES A CRISIS?
Such a question may at first seem unanswerable
because there are so many different kinds of unpleasant situations
into which we humans can get ourselves. In one word, however,
the real culprit is probably ignorance.
Ignorance, as used here, does not imply a lack of formal education,
"Real ignorance is a lack of understanding
of the law of cause and effect in our own lives."
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since one frequently sees highly educated persons getting into
serious personal crises.
Real ignorance is a lack of understanding
of the law of cause and effect in our own lives. Many of us seem
to think that we can do whatever feels good--acquire wealth, achieve
status, pursue romantic conquests, eat heartily, and so forth--often
at the expense of others, without ever having to concern ourselves
with the consequences of such living. We foolishly ignore the
karmic wisdom expressed in those popular phrases: "What goes
around comes around." and "Whatsoever a man sows, that
shall he also reap."
"Pain, unpleasant as it may be, is our stern benefactor."
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Pain, unpleasant as it may be, is our stern benefactor. It teaches
us vital lessons as to the conduct of our lives. Feeling pain
means that something just isn't working and that it's time to
change ourselves or get help through another's experience. Getting
help is a wise first step toward overcoming ignorance. When we
hurt and really need the help, we listen attentively with mind
and heart. We begin to learn those lessons which will prevent
us from getting into similar predicaments later on. Some of us
have to suffer consequential pain over and over before we are
finally ready to seek out its causes. But eventually we say "Enough!"
and get to work.
What if the crisis is not our fault, we might ask. Frequently
a crisis victim who thinks himself to be blameless will lash out
at society, chance, God, fate, the system, his family, or whatever
other abstraction it is most convenient to blame. But the threads
of cause and effect are many and multicolored. Our puny minds
can hardly know for sure how or when an effect will blossom from
a previous cause, nor what combinations of circumstances are being
dealt to us by our own past choices.
"We are the masters of our
future because we are free beings, but we are equally the slaves
of our past and must pay folly's price."
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We are the masters of our
future because we are free beings, but we are equally the slaves
of our past and must pay folly's price.
Helpers in many different roles are available to give us the timely
aid we need when in crisis. There are friends, psychiatrists,
pastors, counselors, teachers, crisis line operators, doctors,
nurses, social workers, and numerous other sources of reeducation
when we are up against a wall. If we will only ask them, they can help
us overcome that ignorance which has, at least in part, caused
us our present agony.
Situations are many and varied, but it is safe to say that a situation
never becomes a crisis until it involves pain. Pain spurs us on
to ask, and exactly at that point is where solid and beneficial
learning can begin. Whatever our diplomas and degrees, this is
the only real learning. It is this learning that sets us free.
Ignorance, mistakes, pain, learning, freedom--so goes the eternal
cycle of human evolution.
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